trauma therapy for high-functioning women
Holistic Therapy That Goes Beyond Talking
available virtually in Massachusetts & Utah
Specialized in IFS & EMDR Therapy
Helping you break patterns & heal trauma, so you feel calmer & genuinely more confident
Does any of this sound like you?
deep-feeler
You are sensitive, thoughtful, highly aware & feel emotions deeply
conflict avoider
You hate conflict & try to avoid it as much as possible to keep the peace
Perfectionistic
You consider yourself a perfectionist and like doing things the “right way”
Compassionate
You are highly empathetic and care deeply about your relationships
People-pleaser
It’s difficult to speak-up for yourself & you strive not to upset or disappoint anyone
self-critical
You have high standards for yourself and can be very critical of your mistakes
Have you tried talk therapy, but feel like you need to go deeper?
Maybe you’re ready to resolve trauma you haven’t healed from, or you’re tired of feeling anxiety and emotional overwhelm.
Either way you want to stop people-pleasing & second guessing yourself, so you feel calmer and genuinely more confident - especially in your relationships.
You’re determined and self-aware, but still feel stuck despite all the ways you’ve tried to make changes.
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Your mind won't shut-off. The racing thoughts, trouble sleeping, and tightness in your chest can make it hard to relax. You might feel on-edge and have low patience.
You try to find solutions, but end up feeling overwhelmed and frustrated.
You’re tired of getting stuck scrolling on your phone & trying to stay busy so you don’t feel so overwhelmed.
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You know you’re capable, and strive to accomplish your goals, but feel self-critical when you make mistakes.
It’s so easy to blame yourself and you feel like you’re “never good enough” - despite what you’ve achieved in the past.
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You feel things deeply, but sometimes your emotions feel too overwhelming. You’re good at distracting or disconnecting from them for a while, but eventually they show up again- and usually feel stronger than before.
You might even worry that your emotions are “too much” for others, and feel frustrated when you can’t control them.
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You know you’ve gone through some painful things in the past, but you don’t want it to hold you back.
You might even know WHY you’re struggling, but feel stuck in changing the way your body responds.
It’s frustrating, because it feels like you “should know” how to fix this.
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You don't want to create conflict or problems, so you try to please everyone. It's difficult to speak-up for your own needs and be assertive.
You might feel guilty, and like you're a bad person when you try to set boundaries with difficult people.
In case no one has told you yet:
There’s nothing wrong with you for feeling stuck - it just means it’s time try a different approach.
Hi, I’m Haley
I specialize in trauma and anxiety therapy for self-aware, deep-feeling women, who are tired of people-pleasing & feeling stuck in the same patterns.
I help my clients heal from painful experiences & understand themselves better, so they feel calmer and genuinely more confident.
My clients walk away from therapy feeling less overwhelmed, more confident, and empowered to be their authentic self.
Most people I work with have already done talk therapy & tried coping skills. I help you go deeper to heal the root causes of your anxiety, people-pleasing & guilt.
how I can help
I specialize in therapy that goes deeper, for more lasting change.
My approach goes beyond venting & coping skills.
I use IFS & EMDR therapy to help you get to the root of your pain & get clarity on the internal patterns that are keeping you stuck.
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Get to the root of what's making you feel anxious, so you can address it directly, and feel less overwhelmed.
Learn more about therapy for anxiety HERE.
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The painful experiences you've been through don't have to define you. You can process what happened in a safe environment, so you’re no longer stuck in the pain from your past.
Learn more about trauma therapy HERE.
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Ready to stop feeling so stressed about conflict? Start healing the root of your people-pleasing, so you can stop over-thinking, set boundaries with confidence & reconnect to your authentic self.
Learn more about therapy for people-pleasing HERE.
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Do you struggle with self-care, people-pleasing, and perfectionism? Learn how to set boundaries, take better care of yourself, and befriend your inner critic.
Learn more about therapy for HSP’s HERE.
If you’re wondering whether I’m the right therapist for you…
We are likely a good fit if…
You want to go beyond talking to change how you actually respond, instead of react
You feel ready for deeper work, and want to experience real change (with support of course!)
You resonate with being a deep-feeler, self-aware, a perfectionist, or a “people-pleaser”
You want to understand yourself better, feel more balanced, and be kinder to yourself
You want to work with a therapist who you genuinely connect with & feel understood by
I’m not the right fit if…
You are looking for a quick fix, or just want coping skills to manage your symptoms
You don’t feel ready to commit the time, effort, or investment it takes to address your goals
You are in immediate crisis or actively struggling with substance abuse
You don’t feel comfortable exploring your emotions, body sensations, or past experiences
Just doing EMDR or IFS matters more than finding a therapist you really connect with
How it works
1
Reach out to schedule a free 15-minute consultation. You will receive a link to book a time that works best for you. 2
During the consultation we will talk about your goals, answer your questions, and look at options for therapy.3
We will decide if working together is the right fit for your goals & schedule your 1st session.